Is it possible to say "I love you" to someone you don't really know? |
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Thank you, J.K. Riki, for inspiring this topic!
Some people are quick to say "I love you" to someone they don't personally know very well. They may know some things about the person. They may have certain things in common. They may like the things that person says or does. But can they really say they know the person, and would this justify one's "love" for them?
For the record, this topic has nothing to do with romance (though it can be applied to any kind of relationship). But perhaps a good start would be to define what love really is.
Or, in this case, starting with what love isn't. Here are some common things people often confuse for love but are not actually synonymous:
Some people are quick to say "I love you" to someone they don't personally know very well. They may know some things about the person. They may have certain things in common. They may like the things that person says or does. But can they really say they know the person, and would this justify one's "love" for them?
For the record, this topic has nothing to do with romance (though it can be applied to any kind of relationship). But perhaps a good start would be to define what love really is.
Or, in this case, starting with what love isn't. Here are some common things people often confuse for love but are not actually synonymous: